A wishbone in a dream is a forked bone pulled apart by two people at once, and the small, competitive act of breaking it, more than the bone itself, is usually what the dream is about.
A wishbone dream turns on an act rather than an object: two people, or the dreamer and someone else, gripping opposite ends of a small forked bone and pulling until it snaps unevenly, with the larger piece traditionally granting its holder a wish. Who ends up holding the larger half, and how that division felt, tends to carry more weight in the dream than anything about the bone's appearance.
The custom the dream draws on turns chance into a private contest: two hopes staked on the same object, resolved by a single, uncontrollable snap. A wishbone dream can accordingly sit close to dreams of any small, binary competition decided by luck rather than skill, coin flips, drawn straws, but keeps the wishbone's specific detail that both sides are, in principle, wishing for something, whether or not the dream ever says what.
The custom is considerably older than its modern association with Thanksgiving turkey. It descends from Etruscan and later Roman practices of keeping the dried collarbones of hens for luck, stroking or eventually pulling them for a favourable outcome, a lineage that later spread into English and American table tradition largely intact in form even as its original divinatory purpose faded into a game.
Cultural
The wishbone-pulling custom traces to the Etruscans, who kept the collarbones of sacred hens as oracular objects, and to the Romans, who inherited the practice and eventually simplified it into the two-person pull that has survived into modern table tradition; a wishbone dream carries this long history of treating a small, unremarkable bone as a genuine instrument of fortune.
- Panati, C. (1987). Extraordinary Origins of Everyday Things.
Freudian
Freud held that every dream, at its most basic level, represents the fulfilment of a wish, however disguised or indirect the route to that fulfilment; a wishbone dream is unusual for stating this mechanism almost without disguise, since the object's entire cultural function is to grant a wish through a small act of chance.
- Freud, S. (1900). The Interpretation of Dreams.
Jungian
Jung proposed synchronicity, a meaningful coincidence between an inner state and an outer event with no causal link between them, to describe exactly the kind of connection the wishbone custom assumes: that a small, physically random outcome, one half breaking off larger than the other, can be meaningfully tied to a wish held privately beforehand; a wishbone dream can rest on this same assumed connection without needing to resolve whether it holds.
- Jung, C.G. (1952). Synchronicity: An Acausal Connecting Principle.
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